What qualities do you appreciate in others? When someone is confident enough to not worry about how everyone else feels about them. When you can live your life the way you want to. What does you ideal match look like? I won`t lie, appearance is important. In addition to having a shapely body, cute face and (preferably) long hair a sense of her own personal fashion is essential. I like a girl who cares about how she dresses. Does chemistry happen immediately, or can it build over time? Both, you can get a bad vibe about someone or you can feel like you`ve known them for years. Attraction is the largest factor. What are the keys to a lasting relationship? Honesty and communication. Lies screw everything up. Communication lets partners react to each other in a constructive manner. I don`t believe that everyone only falls in love once, but I do believe that everyone only gets one shot to make it everlasting. You should message me if: You find me interesting. I know more about what I`m not looking for that what I am looking for. I don`t want anyone who drinks heavily, is physically unattractive, is conceited, thinks that it`s ok to treat certain people like shit, is ditzy, is overly religious, (meaning they push their beliefs on others), is a homebody, is dirty, has no job or isn`t attending school, is controlling, has no class, or dresses like a guy. Wow! Did I say all that?